[Wine] CoD Black Ops Multi stuck on "Waiting for other players"

[JDV28]

Whenever i fire up BO, i can load servers almost instantly and join pretty fast, but when it actually trys getting me into the server, the loading bar will fill and freeze on "Waiting for other players" and then it all grays out for about 5 or 10 minutes, then I get into the server with much lag and a "lost connection" notification. any help is greatly appreciated